DON'T DREAM IT - BE IT.......
This is a story about the brother I never had - Peter.
My best friend at school was Peter - and as fate would have it his personal family circumstance was as eccentric as mine. His father was the Chief Constable at Hyde Park Police`Station. Consequently he lived in this (then) operational station in the centre of Hyde Park itself.
Hyde Park 1974
A Penthouse in Berkeley Square
Peter and I were inseparable, traveling to and from school together, enjoying the same music, having the same rather quirky sense of humour. We walked the streets of the West End of London, Mayfair, Soho - and gathered around us a group of like minded people, young men and women - growing to adulthood. We were (to say the least) a little theatrical, and put on plays in our rough School, we met people in Theatre Land who encouraged us to do amateur productions in the Royal Court Theatre. We traveled to theatre clubs, and allowed our eccentricity to mature.
Shepherds Market - Mayfair
Let me give you just a few vignettes of our youthful antics:
Our School had the predictable "House" structure (Churchill House, Armstrong House etc ad nauseam) into which we were all supposed to devote our enthusiasms to gain points and get school awards. In a moment of brilliance Peter introduced a new House - Wendy House! The membership of Wendy House was exclusive and the very mention of its name outraged those Teachers with less than liberal attitudes.
Some Members of Wendy House - Left to Right
Philip Herbert, Dave Barton, Davina Boyd, Amanda Wise
When a new play opened in an old Cinema on the Kings Road in 1973 Peter in arrived at school breathless with rapture - we were 17 years old. The Rocky Horror Showed had fired his imagination and enthusiasm. He dragged the members of Wendy House to see it - and we were all hooked. Subsequently Wendy House attended the Rocky Horror Show twice weekly - all this long before its cult status. On the last night that Tim Curry played Frankenfurter we had front row seats - and he blew us a kiss as he sang the last words of "I'm going home".
And so we camped and pranced our way across London, dancing the Time Warp on the Central Line, outraging the public we passed both in our appearance and behaviour.
Peter became a Drag Artist - and named his character Adrella La Camp (after a irritating Teachers name - Adele). He had made us all do a music hall concert in the School - and described me in a dress as the ugliest woman he had ever seen. To this day I sing songs from "Oh what a lovely War" that he made me learn.......
Life was SO long.
Adrella's 1st Performance - The School Musical / Oh What a Lovely War
1976 - And then......
Peters life and mine parted - at 20 years of age we went in different directions, down different roads. Peter was developing a successful career as a Drag artist on the London Scene, and I was going my way, a path that would take me to a long career in nursing.
2010 - And then.... 34 Years Later.....
I had become a nurse, a father, a teacher. Funnily enough my 3 sons knew of Peter as I had told them openly and honestly of my eccentric adolescence. They loved the stories about Peter .......
I search for him - Facebook, Google, Youtube - and there he was - Adrella La Camp - working with Paul O'Grady and so many others!! I contacted him - and he contacted me - we had been looking for each other for years. We Skype - so natural, so easy, flippant, camp.
I travel to London on academic nursing business frequently. I meet Peter in his flat in Soho - we are older - but we are still true friends - the passing years have changed nothing. Brothers....
And what of Wendy House - we lost so many of them, those beautiful funny clever friends - to HIV - I am staggered - saddened - those colourful young men - all gone ........
2012 - Peter dies from lung cancer - his funeral is a Glorious Glittering Camp celebration, Paul O'Grady delivers a eulogy that has an audience of hundreds in tears and roaring with laughter - "I didn't want to tell you - but I never liked Lisa Minnelli". As the Coffin disappears we hear the music from Rocky Horror - "I'm going home".
I weep for the brother I never had.....
By the way - he had a thing for men in Uniform......